Or do words not matter?
We were going to tip toe past a certain former President’s rally at Madison Square Garden instead of wallowing in the mire. Honest!
This blog delights in the bon mot, the well aimed jest, humor that is irreverent — even scabrous. But not even sycophants like Sean Trumpitty are laughing at black men “carving watermelons” or punch lines having Puerto Ricans hailing from a “floating pile of hot garbage.” Amid a torrent of NSFW vulgarities, we heard that the Democrat(ic) nominee is a whore, stupid, and “lazy as hell.”
Although he tried to distance himself, “The Republican nominee who wants a televised military tribunal for Liz Cheney for treason just can’t bring himself to object to [the comedian’s] routine, Jim Geraghty laments at National Review. We got to think the campaign hand-picked the entertainment and not because it came cheap.
Another retired military man speaks out
(The list, here.) Retired Navy Admiral William McRaven perfectly encapsulates what this wretched scrivener has been trying to say during this annus horribilis of a campaign, now down to its last week.
Being a person of good character matters. Doing what is right matters because when a leader exhibits honor, integrity and decency, it instills those qualities in the culture of the institution and in the next generation of leaders. What will the culture of America look like if Donald Trump is re-elected? What will the next generation of leaders look like if they are followers of Donald Trump?
Or do you still believe the Proud Boys’ 01-06-21 visit to the Capitol spontaneous generation? The work of that traitor, Pelosi? Admiral McRaven refers to a small volume the library at Blaska Stately Manor acquired on a visit to George Washington’s Mt. Vernon.
“When George Washington was 12, he began copying by hand Rules of Civility & Decent Behavior in Company and Conversation. The first rule states:”
Every action done in company ought to be with some sign of respect
to those that are present.
‘Civility’ formed Washington’s character

Rules of Civility is a 17th Century book of etiquette translated into English from a compilation written by French Jesuits a century before. (Might qualify as timeless advice!) In her forward to the 1989 reprint, Letitia Baldrige writes “Most of the rules embrace strong moral virtues … the young writer refers constantly to modesty and self restraint.” Two more such rules:
Rule 21) Reproach none for the Infirmities of Nature, nor Delight to put them that have in mind thereof.
Rule 22) Show not yourself glad at the Misfortune of another though he were your enemy.
Rule 65) Speak not injurious words, neither in jest nor earnest; scoff at none though they give occasion.
Young George also copied this sage advice: “Rule 2) When in Company, put not your Hands to any part of the Body not usually discovered.” I.E., don’t scratch your balls at the State of the Union, which conjures another MAGA favorite trope: that Michelle Obama is a man.
The indentured servants are not voting for Kamala or her running mate (Bernie Sanders in a hunting jacket). Damning their support for taxpayer-financed sex change for illegal immigrants is fair game. But for Gawd’s sake, we are in no danger of “losing our country” if the wrong candidate wins. Our opponents are not the anti-Christ! Disagreement is not treason. Name-calling advances no agenda. Cheap shots convince no one. (Let’s build some faith in democracy.) Admiral McRaven was a Navy Seal. He avows:
I am a conservative, and I would love to be part of a Republican Party I can be proud of, one that stands for the values, the decency, the sense of duty and honor and country which so many previous Republican presidents strived for.
Blaska’s Bottom Line: Teddy Roosevelt called the presidency “a bully pulpit” — “bully” meaning “excellent” not school-yard tyranny. Way back when, Joseph N. Welch brought low our own Joe McCarthy by asking if he had left, at long last, any sense of decency.

60 responses to “The coarsening of America”
Show me on the doll Dave where Cheezewizz touched you.
If you’re conjuring “below the belt” I think we know for whom you are voting.
Be honest Dave. Does he give a good reach around and blumpkins?
You would know.
Sure has been a coarsening of The Werkes; today, leastways.
Sheesh, fellas, ain’t you got no field work to do on this breathtakingly beautiful late October day?
The Gotch sure did…now it’s Miller Time!
The Gotch
Went for a run does that count?
“Rules of civility” sounds like a suitable ancestor to the “In this house” signs in the Monroe St. neighborhood. Was it stated or just understood that these rules didn’t apply to the Negroes?
Pining for the days of George Washington not a good look. If human nature is a guide Ol’ George was quick to throw the rules out when they became inconvenient. Paul Fanlund-like.
Have YOU added the Puerto Rican flag to your social media accounts?
“George Washington was quick to throw the rules out when they became inconvenient” ??? !!! What are you smoking?
It’s civil to enslave your fellow man?
I think George Washington freed his slaves. But now you’re suggested Donald Trump is more virtuous than George Washington? And braver than John McCain? Smarter than the dumfuks that got themselves wounded in battle? Holier than Jesus Christ. I get it.
I’m only suggesting ol’ George ain’t the saint you make him out to be. Now run along and get to adding that Puerto Rican flag. Oh and make sure your pronouns are up to date.
One Eye: Which “rules” did George Washington “throw…out”?
Is it civil to enslave your fellow man?
One Eye: I do not condone slavery and consider it to be an evil.
In reconsideration of my “which rules” question to you I have come to the realization that had the American Revolution failed, old George and the rest of the Founders would have been hung from the nearest tree for sedition against the British Crown, an act that constituted, yes, rule-breaking.
So who are your Proud Boys rebelling against? The voters?
Seems like they’re opposing your Antifa David.
“Who are the Proud Boys rebelling against?” You talkin’ to ME, Dave? MY Proud Boys?? They are very bad. My point about the American Revolution is that had the colonists not broken “rules” and fought and died for posterity, we would be singing “God Save Our Gracious Queen” (or King). Please don’t equate me with the Proud Boys.
“The Founders and American colonists sacrificed mightily for us.”
The Gotch is right there with you on that there Anon!
Heck, they suffer to this day from despicable Gosh I’m Nice/Look At Me/I’m Dialed In Lefty who cluelessly denigrate the Framers with their monumentally moronic PRESENTISM approach.
The Gotch
Q. Who did the Proud Boys rebel against? Answer: Not the King of England but the American voter. Do NOT equate them with the Founders! Like they say, False Equivalency.
“Who are your Proud Boys rebelling against?” I believe now that you were asking that question of One Eye, Squire. I wasn’t equating the Proud Boys with the Founders. You are the one who brought up the subject of Proud Boys. I have too much respect for the Founders to equate them with a far-right militant group, as should be clear from my posts on this topic.
Excuse the misunderstanding. I catch on eventually.
On the subject of coarsening, inimitable local firebrand Ann Althouse AIN’T BUYIN’ Jeffy Bezos’ laughably phony Come_To_Jesus moment.
And who would blame her; it’s an (IMO) obsequiously preemptive Before_The_Fact apology, similar to Artie Sulzberger, Jr. & Deano Baquet’s hilariously disingenuous NYT Mea Culpa for FAILING to persuade enough despicable Lefties to do their Full_Court_Press bidding, which was to get Harridan Hillarity across the finish line.
Of coarse (sic), she won the popular vote, am I right?
Anywho, it’s almost too much to take.
Almost……
The Gotch
And now the news is that 200,000 people have abandoned the Washington Post because of this non-endorsement. There’s a Babylon Bee story in there somewhere…Liberals Dump Liberal Paper For Not Being Blatantly Liberal Enough.
“There’s a Babylon Bee story in there somewhere”
“Bezos Confident Trump Supporting Subscribers Will Keep The WaPo Profitable.”
The Gotch
One Eye is intent on defending the indefensible, even if it means trashing the Founders — just like the Woke progressives among the Grievance Study faculty. Which proves my point.
I agree, Squire. The Founders and American colonists sacrificed mightily for us.
“Defending the indefensible”
That’s a liberal tactic. Have you gone full Hillary on us? Mention it to your therapist.
Hmmm what would I rather have … the foul mouthed belligerent SOB who keeps us out of wars, or the “civil” statesman who fans the flames?
Easy choice for me.
Is America at war now?
Cute. We never at war in Vietnam either.
I guess I should be happy we have plenty of extra tens of billions to send to Zelenskyy. Oh wait…
“We were never at war in Vietnam?” We lost 58,220 young Americans in that war!
Conflict. Police action. Perhaps you don’t remember.
In any case call it what you will our coffers sure seem to be feeding a lot of death and destruction around the world.
Our taxpayers already gave away enough hardware to equip ISIS and the Taliban. Obama/Biden for the first debacle and Biden/Harris and General Mark Milley for the second.
Squire yearns for the days of Republican nice guys who thought politics really is bean bags. Bush Sr., Romney, McCain, you know… losers.
Gas IS cheap.
I would love to be part of a U.S.A. I can be proud of, one that stands for the values, the decency, the sense of duty and honor and country which so many previous Republican presidents strived for.
R.I.P. Teri Garr
In the interests of fairness, how about printing the epithets directed at Trump by Harris’s followers. It shouldn’t be difficult to match “whore, stupid, lazy.” As for the coarsening of American culture, I’d say Hollywood and the music industry have contributed far more to that trend than politicians of any stripe. By now, indiscretions on the part of Trump or his followers have become daily fare and make little or no impact on voters no matter how vulgar, racist, sexist, homophobic, anti-immigrant, etc. they might be and no matter how much the MSM highlights them. Mr. Hinchcliffe is already yesterday’s news.
Great Whataboutism! Hollywood is not running for President. That “Mr. Hinchcliffe is already yesterday’s news” is proof of the postulation.
GK’s comment isn’t so much “whataboutism” as identifying what despicable Lefty calls Root Causes, or what we in the business call Precedent.
Eminently deserving of mention for that “coarsening root causes/precedent” would be SanFranNan tearing up President Trump’s SOTU address for all the world to see, or DementiaJoKe’s catastrophically creepy Soul Of The Nation AKA We The People/Just Not YOU People speech, both of which, not to put too fine point to it, Crossed The Rubicon.
Heck, even Jon Stewart didn’t think it was that Big Of A Deal, and we all know which side of the aisle he calls home.
The Gotch
Most of the Founders were slavers. Even Benjie enjoyed diddling young Frenchies.
Hypocritical Evangelicals
The good: On June 1, 1998 — five months after the Monica Lewinsky scandal broke — the Southern Baptist Convention convened in Salt Lake City and voted to approve a resolution on the importance of moral character in public officials. It included this memorable line: “Tolerance of serious wrong by leaders sears the conscience of the culture, spawns unrestrained immorality and lawlessness in the society, and surely results in God’s judgment.”
The bad: Yet now Southern Baptists and Evangelicals are among Trump’s most loyal supporters. Trump is thrice divorced, a serial adulterer, woman abuser, constant liar. How do Christians now support him? Were they lying in 1998? Was the evangelical argument for character a cynical partisan exercise from the beginning?
Noted Christian author and apologist, C.S. Lewis wrote, “Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point, which means at the point of highest reality.” We don’t know if we’re actually honest until we tell the truth when the truth will hurt us. That is courage. Courage is the test.
Evangelicals claimed that they valued integrity in politicians, and they held to that conviction until the very moment it carried a cost. That is when their courage failed.
I am an Evangelical Christian and I voted for Trump in 2020, but will not vote for him in 2024 (nor for Harris!).
ALL my grandparents came from Europe. I was a little kid when one of my grandfather’s finally became a citizen. White shirt, tie, suit. The whole neighborhood came out for a party. He wore the same clothes when he went to vote for the first time. So proud to be doing that. No one wanted to deport him, made fun of his name or lack of education, tried to throw out his vote or threatened him. How far we have fallen. The real tragedy is all the people trying to justify why they support the obscene attempt to convince us that this is for our own best interests when we all know it isn’t.
“ I was a little kid when one of my grandfather’s finally became a citizen.”
In other words he was a legal immigrant.
This is the way.
OE, thanks for pointing out, to someone who’s obviously too phuquing STOOPID (sic) to know the difference, that LEGAL and ILLEGAL immigration are unrelated/diametrically opposed concepts.
The Gotch
I didn’t say anything about legal or not. And who are you calling stupid? I have some Puerto Ricans who married cousins of mine and have older kids now. Do you think they are going to vote for Drump now? 500,000 in Pennsylvania. Think he’s going to get their votes? If he represents your personal morals and beliefs then vote for him. Don’t make excuses and flap your mouth. Own it.
He lived and worked here for many years. Long enough to have six kids before becoming a citizen. Whrere does that put him on your sliding scale?
Interesting. I would consider a fast track to citizenship for people like your grandfather who have a body of “good works”.
Yes, our political discourse and rhetoric is in the sewer. Yes, Trump is a huge culprit. And yes, many of his detractors make it worse by trying to one-up him and his supporters—Colbert, Kimmel, Oliver, Noah, Waters, Bowman. And as a result, there’s been a disturbing spike in people who substitute memes, bile, snark, and trolling for real debate and to get attention. It’s sickening.
“Hollywood is not running for President.”
True, dat.
One more thing; you think A COMEDIAN (who, FTR, WAS NOT Trump) making a lame (can The Gotch say that without offending) joke about an island (2024 population ~3.2 million) is disqualifying for a POTUS candidate?
If so, then on that scale of hurting people’s easily bruised feelz, where would, say, a Sitting President (and a self-anointed UNITER, at that!) calling ~half the U.S. citizenry (2024 population ~355 million) GARBAGE fall?
Quoth DementiaJoKe: The Only GARBAGE I See Floating Out There IS (Trump’s) SUPPORTERS (bolds/caps/italics mine)
Taken out of context…..?
The Gotch
Oh my; the plot thickens: Trash Crisis Leaves Puerto Rico NEAR THE BRINK
MONEY QUOTE: Most Of Puerto Rico’s Landfills FAIL TO MEET FEDERAL STANDARDS And Are Almost Full. Residents And Experts Worry That TRASH WILL SOON OVERWHELM THE REGION. (bolds/caps/italics mine)
With many a truth is spoken in jest, is this an insensitive joke, calling attention to a REAL PROBLEM, or a combination of both?
The Gotch
Saw on news yesterday- Chicago is rat capital of the USA. Would have thought NY but the reporting may be skewed. I imagine PR could compete with all that garbage.
Did Biden just hand the election to Trump?
Riffing off the PR joke he calls Trump supporters “garbage”. Will go over as well as “deplorables” did for Hillary.
Now we know why the Harris people have wanted nothing to do with him.
Who’s running the country????
Geesh people! The comedian was referring to the longstanding landfill problem in Puerto Rico. The founding fathers were studs. Presentism is a real thing and people suffer from it especially the left. A rude and crude Trump is infinitely better than a dangerous and incompetent Harris. Squire I can’t believe your black and white thinking on this topic.